Tips for men to impress women

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1) Stop Looking for the ultimate line

All you have to do is keep her interested in the next thing you’re going to say to her. Tell her about your trip to Prague or an interesting movie you have recently seen. Be honest, but find a way to show her that you’re a multi-dimensional guy, without sounding pretentious. You have to keep her interested, and waiting for the ultimate line does not help.

2) Avoid Awkward Lull

This is where most men struggle. You should never leave a conversation because you’ve run out of things to talk about. At the very least, use something like, “that’s just like when . . .” to keep things moving. If you’re feeling confident, try the “cold read”—tell her something about herself based on her appearance or mannerisms. Point out her striking cheekbones or her cute laugh. Her reaction will open up a new avenue in the conversation. Change table, place, music or position to keep her interested

3) The Reel – In

Confidence and humour are the biggest assets. Be fun, tell jokes, make her laugh. Just don’t over do it. You are not a stand up comedian. You can be funny while having meaningful talk as well.

4) Take it outside

Do not take loud, crowded surroundings. More intimate, the better. That’s where you’ll discover your shared interests and build a connection. You cannot know a person in a crowded and loud bar / club. Ask her for coffee, so that you can talk.

Best of Luck 🙂 Be fun, honest and respectful. Be the guy you would want your best friend or sister to date 🙂

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Big Bang Theory Characters (Raj, Leonard, Sheldon, Howard) on Dating

Leondard Hofstadter

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Out of the four characters, Leonard gets the most action (read Penny ;)). Why? He has excellent social skills, probably as a result of having to deal with so many difficult people in his life. He’s cute, responsible, and reliable. What’s his Achilles Heel? He’s a TNG (a Too Nice Guy). He lets women (and everyone else) walk all over him. Women don’t respect this. He needs to be the man in his relationships.

Sheldon Cooper

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Its shown that Sheldon does not date by choice. Well, even if he would want to date, he would be terrible at it. He lacks social skill, and more importantly has little empathy. A woman can tolerate an arrogant nerd. She can tolerate a guy with poor social skills. But a guy with no empathy is definitely out of the question for any woman, even Amy Farrah Fowler.

Howard Wolowitz

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Howard is a horny guy and a mama’s boy. But those traits don’t deter him from getting liked by a few girls. That is because he is a sweet guy who really, really wants a woman, but he’s so desperate for approval and sex, that he scares women away. He just needs to be respectful of women, and he would be a good ordinary man to date (well Jew and short, but still)

Rajesh Koothrappali

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Rajesh is a typical Indian guy. A lot of Indian men, go out on parties, but form their own groups or stand in a corner, because they are too afraid talking to women. Guys like Raj need to develop self confidence to date girls. They need to start by talking to close friends, friends’ girlfriends and sisters, to understand that girls are normal people.

Conclusion

One of the reasons I think BBT is popular as at some level, all guys feel a BBT character in them. Which BBT character are you? 🙂

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5 Advantages and Disadvantages of Online Dating

Top 5 Advantages of Online Dating:

1. More reach

2. Lower cost of access – almost free

3. Lots of information – efficient screening

4. Anonymous

5. You are in control of the process

Top 5 Disadvantages of Internet Dating

1. Too many choices

2. Encourages “shopping” mentality

3. Lack of trust

4. Some users are cheaters, rapists, thieves

5. Complacency

Who are we?

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Why Online Dating did not work for you?

A lot of my friends tell me “online dating doesn’t work!” Then they go into some story about how either they or someone they know used to have a profile online but never met anyone they liked. And that you know that site is full of girls showing off cleavage and all guys are athletic and tall. While online dating certainly comes with no guarantees (if only!) I think its need to be seen both from a customer and from a company point of view, what failed! Lets see what you could do. Here are three reasons why online dating isn’t working for you and what to do differently.

You are never online 
Tell me honestly. How frequently do you visit the site after signing up? Are you guilty of signing up for an online dating site and creating a profile, only to log-in once a month and wonder why you haven’t met the person of your dreams? Don’t you think that a huge and crucial aspect of online dating is actually being online. Treating online world as a safe place, where you know you are talking to real people and friends would solve the issue. You have to be online to discover and get discovered.

Fix for companies: Integrate with what people are using. Facebook is social. Respect people privacy. Email is personal. But don’t intrude in people life. Do not send me daily email that “sasha, 25 wants to meet me”. I do not want to meet a girl who sends me such messages. Send me email, but look at each email as if I should be eager to open it.

You do not trust people
I do not blame you for this. If I met you in a bar or at a common friend’s party, you would figure out that I am a good guy. I am the same guy on dating website. You don’t trust me now. Why u do that? Because there are a lot of guys and girls who are not portraying their profile correctly. I think we are paying a huge price for privacy. This needs to be fixed.

Fix for companies: Screen each profile or get a guy in only if there are friends recommending and get the data verified. If you do not do that. You have to fail!

Who are we?

We are building tomonotomo ( http://www.tomonotomo.com ) – which is short for “tomogachi no tomogachi” – which means – “friends of friends”. We are revolutionising the way dating happens. Please sign up to get a sneek peek.