1) Stop Looking for the ultimate line
All you have to do is keep her interested in the next thing you’re going to say to her. Tell her about your trip to Prague or an interesting movie you have recently seen. Be honest, but find a way to show her that you’re a multi-dimensional guy, without sounding pretentious. You have to keep her interested, and waiting for the ultimate line does not help.
2) Avoid Awkward Lull
This is where most men struggle. You should never leave a conversation because you’ve run out of things to talk about. At the very least, use something like, “that’s just like when . . .” to keep things moving. If you’re feeling confident, try the “cold read”—tell her something about herself based on her appearance or mannerisms. Point out her striking cheekbones or her cute laugh. Her reaction will open up a new avenue in the conversation. Change table, place, music or position to keep her interested
3) The Reel – In
Confidence and humour are the biggest assets. Be fun, tell jokes, make her laugh. Just don’t over do it. You are not a stand up comedian. You can be funny while having meaningful talk as well.
4) Take it outside
Do not take loud, crowded surroundings. More intimate, the better. That’s where you’ll discover your shared interests and build a connection. You cannot know a person in a crowded and loud bar / club. Ask her for coffee, so that you can talk.
Best of Luck 🙂 Be fun, honest and respectful. Be the guy you would want your best friend or sister to date 🙂
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