Out of the four characters, Leonard gets the most action (read Penny ;)). Why? He has excellent social skills, probably as a result of having to deal with so many difficult people in his life. He’s cute, responsible, and reliable. What’s his Achilles Heel? He’s a TNG (a Too Nice Guy). He lets women (and everyone else) walk all over him. Women don’t respect this. He needs to be the man in his relationships.
Its shown that Sheldon does not date by choice. Well, even if he would want to date, he would be terrible at it. He lacks social skill, and more importantly has little empathy. A woman can tolerate an arrogant nerd. She can tolerate a guy with poor social skills. But a guy with no empathy is definitely out of the question for any woman, even Amy Farrah Fowler.
Howard is a horny guy and a mama’s boy. But those traits don’t deter him from getting liked by a few girls. That is because he is a sweet guy who really, really wants a woman, but he’s so desperate for approval and sex, that he scares women away. He just needs to be respectful of women, and he would be a good ordinary man to date (well Jew and short, but still)
Rajesh is a typical Indian guy. A lot of Indian men, go out on parties, but form their own groups or stand in a corner, because they are too afraid talking to women. Guys like Raj need to develop self confidence to date girls. They need to start by talking to close friends, friends’ girlfriends and sisters, to understand that girls are normal people.
One of the reasons I think BBT is popular as at some level, all guys feel a BBT character in them. Which BBT character are you? 🙂
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