Things Boys do We Love | Things we do Girls Love (Part II)

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Things Boys do We Love | Things we do Girls Love (Part I)

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How to Approach a Woman – Advice for men from women

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Walk up and say “Hi”. Start up a general conversation about where you’re at and see how she reacts. If she keeps eye contact and is pleasant, continue on and ask her out; if she is avoiding eye contact and being short with what she says, move on. Just be confident (not cocky) when you approach and smile.

You have to do the hard part of playing it by ear and just approaching them, saying hi, and talking to them in a very confident and non-confrontational manner … Just be confident, if you are, it doesn’t matter what you say.

I prefer someone who can just say hello to me and be forward about it without automatically using cheesy pick up lines or asking me to sleep with them.

I had a guy come up to me at work and said I’ve never done something like this before but I just had to tell you that you are beautiful and see if I could take you out sometime. If I wasn’t married at the time I would have totally said yes. I think if you seem genuine in saying something like that you wont come across as totally creepy, but still flattering. Like really flattering.

Workplace is an inappropriate place for romantic interactions. … as a cocktail waitress (very revealing work attire), I do NOT appreciate guys trying to talk to me at work. You may be as genuine, charming or even CUTE, but whatever you are saying is going in one ear and out the other. It makes it uncomfortable.

Guys don’t realize how much most women think about things like exit routes. If you corner or trap us in some way, we will feel frightened, not receptive. I know 90% of guys don’t mean to do this, and that kind of thing doesn’t even occur to them … And if you’re wondering why we worry about things like that, it is because we’ve been cornered and harassed or groped, or know someone who has, and there is literally no way to know if you are going to do something like that until you do it. So just, before you approach a strange woman, look at her possible escape routes, and do not get between her and them.

… make sure you have the woman’s attention. I don’t know how many times a guy will just walk up beside me and talk. Not even have eye contact and expect me to be like “oh yes I was totally just paying attention to what you said and it was probably awesome.”

Who we are?

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9 Proven Signs that She is Interested

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Touching or Flicking Hair

Lip Licking

Teasing

She gets close

She shares back something about her

Friendly response to your chat-up

Open Postures

Head tilt and Smile

Eye play

Who we are?

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9 Guys Girls should never Date

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1. Mr. Volatile

One moment, everyone’s eyeing this extra caring, super-hot boyfriend of yours while the next, he’s just indifferent and you’re left wondering WTH just happened. We won’t call this man one with mood swings because that is acceptable. But he’s the kind of a man who is so volatile, you’ll have all the answers, yet be clueless about his weird behaviour.

2. The ‘I-me-myself’ guy

Go to a restaurant with him, he’ll be kind enough to let you check the menu, but will choose what he wants. Talk to him over the phone, you’ll find conversations start with how his day was and ends with the goals of his life. And while you’re thinking of a beach destination for that annual relaxation holiday, you’ll end up going to a desert just because he wants a camel ride. He’s selfish. Stay with him to be unhappy for the rest of your life.

3. The ‘Aww-I’m-just-a-kid’ man

This guy just hasn’t grown up. He’s so happy extending his childhood days that he will mistake you for his momma. If you’re willing to tie his shoelace, select clothes for that everyday outing of his, cook for him and feed him, among doing his other chores, we will say, go for him.

4. The sleaze-ball

He flirts with every woman on the planet – his receptionist, the waitress, the woman who comes to take out garbage, the stranger at the super market and even your best friend. His history can make you uncomfortable and you just know he’s not the kind who’ll be serious with anyone. Avoid this man who’s only about sex, sex and just sex, unless you’re looking for someone to play with too.

5. ‘I-need-you-so-much’ fella

This Mr Clingy is a total no-no to be with. He’s so insecure and doubtful about things in life, all he’s looking for is reassurance. And here’s what he comes with: a truck full of emotions. Trust us, you wouldn’t want to be a shoulder to this man, who goes sob, sniff, sob every single minute when he’s with you.

6. The predictable guy

This one’s as predictable as a bimonthly auto rickshaw fare hike in Delhi. You just know what he’s thinking or is about to do. Yes, we’re talking about (yawn) the guy who has just no surprises to offer you, because well, not only is he predictable, but he’s way too boring, so much so that we know for certain you’ll gauge him in just a month.

7. The Player

The player is a ladies’ man. He is charming, well mannered, good looking, witty and successful but will never stick around till the end of the night. He will manipulate your emotions with endless compliments. The Player often boasts of his expensive house, extravagant gifts, fast cars and lavish parties but doesn’t display a shred of genuine emotion. The sex is great, but don’t be surprised if you do not see him in the morning.

8. The Mama’s Boy

The Mama’s boy is a sweet, kind and gentle Man-Child. He is immature and irresponsible. His mother influences his life, goals and relationships. He has no stable income and he lives rent free with his mother. His beloved mother thinks that no girl is good enough for him. He will constantly compare you to his mother by saying disturbing statements like “My mother cooks like this, you should too.” In spite of trying to live up to his expectations, you will always fall short. He frequently calls and texts his mother to inform her about his daily routine. RUN before he brings his mother to the dinner date.

9. The Rebounder

The Rebounder has recently broken up with his long time serious girlfriend. He will constantly talk about his ex saying “She dressed up like that” or “We had our first kiss at this restaurant.” Check his cell phone for pictures of his ex or her messages. Also, does he try to spot his ex in every tall girl with short black hair? Emotional baggage never helped any relationship! It is going to take some serious investigation and patience to determine if you are dating a Rebounder.

Best of Luck Ladies!

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Tips for men to impress women

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1) Stop Looking for the ultimate line

All you have to do is keep her interested in the next thing you’re going to say to her. Tell her about your trip to Prague or an interesting movie you have recently seen. Be honest, but find a way to show her that you’re a multi-dimensional guy, without sounding pretentious. You have to keep her interested, and waiting for the ultimate line does not help.

2) Avoid Awkward Lull

This is where most men struggle. You should never leave a conversation because you’ve run out of things to talk about. At the very least, use something like, “that’s just like when . . .” to keep things moving. If you’re feeling confident, try the “cold read”—tell her something about herself based on her appearance or mannerisms. Point out her striking cheekbones or her cute laugh. Her reaction will open up a new avenue in the conversation. Change table, place, music or position to keep her interested

3) The Reel – In

Confidence and humour are the biggest assets. Be fun, tell jokes, make her laugh. Just don’t over do it. You are not a stand up comedian. You can be funny while having meaningful talk as well.

4) Take it outside

Do not take loud, crowded surroundings. More intimate, the better. That’s where you’ll discover your shared interests and build a connection. You cannot know a person in a crowded and loud bar / club. Ask her for coffee, so that you can talk.

Best of Luck 🙂 Be fun, honest and respectful. Be the guy you would want your best friend or sister to date 🙂

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